Do your chores

Since I became a stay at home mom I quickly realized how dirty we all are, I mean you can clean but when you are staring at the insides of your house every single day it just gets little obnoxious. I have my normal daily chores that I do not that I am told to do by my hubby but if I do not do these chores on a daily basis I will go bananas!

I will admit that I had a maid for 2 years ONLY because I was working a full-time job 55+ hours a week driving 4 hours out of my day and the last thing I wanted to do was come home and clean at 7 at night. Same goes for my hubby who works non-stop to make sure we can make our damn mortgage payment every month.

If you are a stay at home mom you do not need a maid or a nanny, cook whatever! I have met some interesting mom's who are stay at home moms have a daily maid while kids are at school and then have the nanny pick up kids from school. Ummm hello we are not playing Barbie and Ken here who live this fabulous life this is real life people! As a woman if you decide to get married, have children and live in a huge house and a stay at home mom then that's what YOU signed up for. I believe you shouldn't bring in "Help" for the chaos YOU created especially in this situation.


At the end of the day my chores are done and dinner is cooked all done by me, that makes me proud!